2410“This wasn’t said to me directly, but in a sermon one day,” Blanche says in her audio clip.

“The reason it’s stuck with me is that I'm a social worker by profession, and that was an idea that we really struggled to put across to people, to get them to understand that you’re not either happy or sad. You live somewhere between those two.

”I might say to my own children: ‘You need to get an education,’ but it’s more than just a degree, or being married, or whatever that might be. It’s not about that or the opposite, it’s the parts in between that really fulfil who we are.”

Taken at Nelson Mandela Metropolitan University, Port Elizabeth, South Africa during the SOTM World Tour.